It’s the truth. Regardless of the industry you’re in there’s always going to be the naysayers, the doubters, the detractors and the haters trying to throw salt on your game. In short, you can stay in your lane and mind your own business but sooner than later, someones gonna swerve and try to disrupt your trip to the top.
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So what do you do when this happens? Nothing. Just keep your ego down, your skills up and keep making the moves that are making you that much more popular. Remember….Elephants don’t swat flies and no one has ever achieved greatness without a little bit of negative press.
Inspiration behind the post:Â
Recently,Â Â I was talking to a friend (who by the way is not in the tattoo industry), and he was talking about the amount of heat he caught for recently getting a big promotion. Needless to say, people in the office were talking smack and spreading rumors and after a week it finally got to him.
About an hour into ourÂ conversation,Â his grand father came out and said, “Listen up cry baby, elephants don’t swat flies and people don’t talk garbage about nobody, they talk about somebody,Â and you’re somebody. So suck it up, and strive for more.”Â
Â What’s your point of view? Â
As we both sat there laughing, he pulled open the sliding doorsÂ with a beer in his hand and said, “This is my point of view…who cares about anyoneÂ elses point of view. I built this house on hard work, not gossip, and anyone can do the same.”
As we sat there kind of stunned he followed up by saying, “Jealousy isn’t new. It’s older than I am except Â you kids call it ‘hating’, it’s a part of life, a part of the process, and a sign that you’re doing just fine. Ask MJ or Kobe ifÂ everyone liked them, or better yet ask Kim Kardashian, heck she married a guy that looks like a squirrel but heck…he’s got a whole lot of chestnuts in his piggy bank. “
Wise words from an 86 year old.Contributed by SDT writer JV – An LA based writer with an affinity for tattoos, long drives to the beach and an intolerance for stupidity.Â